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Book 2, Question 119 · Video

Why Do We Say Please and Thank You?

Video · 2:05 · Crafty Clover explains, from A Million Whys Book 2

Have you noticed how good it feels when someone says thank you? It makes people smile. Polite words show that you see the other person, not just the thing you want.

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What Crafty Clover says in this video

Intro

Hey there, curious minds! I'm Crafty Clover! Let's discover something amazing. Why do we say please and thank you?

The Big Idea

Have you noticed how good it feels when someone says thank you? It makes people smile. Polite words show that you see the other person, not just the thing you want. That is a very kind way to act. Small words oil the group, like oil helping a squeaky gear turn smoothly!

You Need Something

Step one: you need something. Maybe you want a drink, a turn on the swing, or some help with homework. Everybody needs something from other people sometimes. Nobody can do everything alone.

Please Shows Respect

Step two: please shows respect. Saying please tells the other person that you value their time and feelings. It turns a demand into a friendly request. The other person gets to choose to say yes.

They Help

Step three: they help. When people are asked politely, they often feel happy to help. Polite words make working together smoother and friendlier. Nobody likes to feel ignored or bossed around.

A Closer Look

Let's take a closer look at how polite words work! There are four parts to the story. First, you need something. Please shows respect. Then they help. And thank you closes the loop!

Quick Facts

Quick facts! Thank you shows appreciation, and it keeps the group feeling good. Every language has some version of these words. In Spanish it is gracias, and in French it is merci. Around the world, people have found ways to say thanks. Even a tiny thank you can make someone's whole day brighter. It costs nothing, but it means a lot.

Think Like a Scientist

Now, think like a scientist! Count how many times you say thank you before dinner. Make a tally mark each time. Then look at your tally marks, and count them up. Can you find any patterns? Who do you thank most?

Outro

Please and thank you are tiny words with big power. Use them, and watch the smiles grow! Crafty Clover can be found on Amazon Books, Google Bookstore, and Apple Books. Available for purchase or download! Bye for now!

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